tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post8432130101331794337..comments2024-02-07T04:56:32.815-08:00Comments on Chiconky: Is this how it's going to be?Chiconkyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11824934269870487334noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-12369512520416048972011-10-06T12:19:25.587-07:002011-10-06T12:19:25.587-07:00It really sucks... I think what sucks most is losi...It really sucks... I think what sucks most is losing the community of friends and family we had all built here. After grad school everyone was finally looking forward to settling in and now it's back to "starting over" all over again. I feel so bad for everyone :(Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14350994877238753359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-4080320949163244702011-10-03T11:04:11.460-07:002011-10-03T11:04:11.460-07:00Oh no!! I am so, so sorry to hear this. We dealt...Oh no!! I am so, so sorry to hear this. We dealt with this last year, and I freaked the freak out, so I have an idea of the stress you are feeling. I hope this turns out to be a wonderful opportunity, but I know it doesn't feel that way right now.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07270389106604867450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-638507857339678472011-10-02T20:21:12.249-07:002011-10-02T20:21:12.249-07:00I'm really sorry. :( I almost didn't grasp...I'm really sorry. :( I almost didn't grasp your 1st blog--I had this shocked "no way" reaction just to reading it...so I can't imagine being in it. It seems like you were just starting to get your feet under you. <br /><br />I really hope that great things (including a great job) come your way soon. You're rad & a great psychologist and it's totally lame that lazier and less competent people get to stay b/c of a retarded hierarchy. But you're right, it's no good getting stuck there...(although, I would be sad and angry for weeks...probably not productive, as it seems you've been). I hope you're doing okay.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09331562301850231460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-84445856703119967832011-10-02T20:18:41.394-07:002011-10-02T20:18:41.394-07:00Oh my, just am catching up on blog reading after m...Oh my, just am catching up on blog reading after mini coast vacation and good gracious that is terrible news! I am so, so sorry. Although I really don't think F-town (;-) would ever be the right place for you, I am still so, so sorry. Moving, finding new schools and all is so stressful. The not knowing is too. I had to laugh as you deal with this kind of stuff exactly as I do (surprise, surprise)a constant vacillating between the logical and the emotional. I so get what you mean by the tears for what is lost, the freaking out because of the stress along side of the excitement for what is to come. I always get frustrated when I feel emotional over things that I know logically are good. If only my emotions and logic could always align, eh? Know that your e-friend is here if you want a non-partial shoulder to cry on or analyze the situation to. (J doesn't freak out quiet like C but he does sort of retreat into a state of inertia that drives my LETS SOLVE THIS NOW AND ACT self nuts. Not going to solve it by avoiding it.)imayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07183319962740428092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-73348648837463970872011-10-01T10:30:46.678-07:002011-10-01T10:30:46.678-07:00I wish I was there right now. I don't know wha...I wish I was there right now. I don't know what to say and just had a tearful shower, myself. The only positive things I can think of is that you didn't buy a house and you didn't like Fresno. That's all I have. All the other stuff is just as sucky as you say - leaving a job you love, kids, school, yelling, friends, job hunting, packing, moving. It all sucks, but you'll be all right.abbanoreply@blogger.com