tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post589389827871476437..comments2024-02-07T04:56:32.815-08:00Comments on Chiconky: The downside of kindergartenChiconkyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11824934269870487334noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8875155167904940215.post-68096267497638616952012-02-02T22:01:20.137-08:002012-02-02T22:01:20.137-08:00Oh my gosh, if wasn't for the year age gap &am...Oh my gosh, if wasn't for the year age gap & gender thing I would seriously be wondering if we were raising the same kid. We are dealing with exactly the same kind of stuff. L is also a total social butterfly, gets along with everyone, not shy in the least but completely a follow the lead kind if kid. It drives me nuts. <br /><br />L has a best friend, who's mom is a good friend of mine. And unfortunately this little girl is the one that is causing the exact conversations at our house as you described. It is SO frustrating and cyclical. I handle it the same as you. Which led to a recent conversation in which L asked, "if good people do bad things sometimes what makes the<br />different from bad people?"<br /><br />I feel your pain. I so want L to know what is right & stick up for it. I cringe when she picks up the bad attitudes or sayings of this girl. <br /><br />I think at this point we can only dialogue with them, reiterate what is right & why, along with helping them handle the situation when it a rises again. We do a lot of role playing with her dolls. I keep telling myself that it is better to learn how to set boundaries now than latter but really I just want to protect her from all that is messed up in the world.imayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07183319962740428092noreply@blogger.com